There is more than one kind of dating, Zell. I'm not against going to a movie with someone on occasion (a casual date), but I do not intend to allow myself to become attached to a girl until I am capable of dealing with any consequences that could result from acting married, yet not being.
Eg: Until I can care for a wife and a child, I don't plan on getting serious with anyone. To do otherwise would be playing Russian Roulette with my life, and would be incredibly selfish. I would basically be thinking of myself, and what pleasure I could get out of the moment. I want to, when the time comes, be thinking about the future, and about the girl rather than myself and how much fun I can have before the relationship hits rock bottom, and we break up.
Now, I'm curious as to what the first word of your post is, there aren't that many words that ezBoard filters, but none of the ones I can think of fit.