Didn't you have a long-ass roleplay a good while back where your character was trying to convince a Kat Karina character (or someone like that) to like him?
dude, You've missed out. Han's been married at least 5 times, and has had over those five incarnations something like 6 kids. maybe more I was talking about being engaged OOC , not IC :-p
The best advice I can give is to read the previous RP's and get a feel for this place; some of us are still experiencing a damned writer block, while others are busy with real life and can't RP thats one of the reasons you'll often find stories that haven't had any activity in awhile.